Do you now consciously choose to create a loving relationship with prospects?         Then you should read about a very important condition which will affect your relationship∙ that is your own happiness.

Excitement, passion and attraction usually prevail in the beginning of a new acquaintance. After a few months you may notice that the ideal conditions of the first days have changed. The excitement has faded away and your partner doesn’t claim you anymore. What may have changed the energy in your relationship which is now passionless? Given the fact that you have consciously chosen your partner based on your values and the traits you seek in him, then you can clarify the situation as follows:

How would you respond to the following questions if you weren’t currently in a relationship?

1. How much happy am I now?
2. How much satisfied am I with my professional development?
3. How am I developing on a personal level, setting and achieving goals?
4. How much satisfied am I with my social and family relationships?
5. How many activities I enjoy am I doing?

If you respond positively to most of the above questions, then you are definitely happy and satisfied. Your positive energy and satisfaction will have a very positive effect on your relationship. Ask your partner the same questions or observe him and answer them on his behalf and you will see how his energy is affecting your relationship.               If you wish to create a loving relationship you should first care for your own happiness and then you should evaluate your chosen one using the above questions!